Healing from Church Hurt and Coming to God as You Are (Daily Devo 11/15)
Romans 5:8 (KJV)
8 "But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us."
Church hurt is one of the most painful experiences a believer can go through. When people who claim to represent God wound us with judgment, hypocrisy, or rejection, it’s easy to feel like we don’t belong or that we’ll never be good enough. But thankfully the gospel tells us a different story. God’s love for us isn’t based on our perfection or performance but by His grace for us.
Romans 5:8 reminds us that God’s love reached us while we were still sinners. He didn’t wait for us to get our lives together before extending His mercy. Jesus died knowing exactly who we are, brokenness and all.
The church may fail you but God never will.
If you’ve been hurt by the church, know this: God sees your pain. He understands how hard it is to trust again after being judged or rejected. Jesus Himself faced rejection and betrayal especially from those closest to Him. The church is made up of imperfect people, and sometimes, those imperfections hurt deeply. But the gospel reminds us that our relationship with God isn’t defined by the actions of others. God’s love is personal, unchanging, and unconditional.
Hurt may come from people, but all healing comes from God.
The beauty of the gospel is that you don’t have to be clean to come to God. In fact, trying to clean yourself up before coming to Him is impossible. Salvation is a gift, something we receive, not achieve.
When Jesus walked the earth, He surrounded Himself with sinners, outcasts, and broken people. He didn’t push them away but drew closer to them. The same is true for us today. God isn’t looking for perfect people, he sent his perfect son to die for our sins and make us perfect through that sacrifice.
God's only ask is that we trust in his some who reconciled us back to him.
Our hearts may be closed, but God's arms are always open. Church hurt can make us feel like we don’t belong anywhere, but the gospel tells us we belong to God. God’s love is bigger than any hurt the church or the world could ever inflict. If you’re struggling with trusting people or even trusting God because of past hurts, remember this: God’s love isn’t like people’s love. Where people may fail, God is faithful. Where people may judge, God shows mercy. And where people may push you away, God welcomes you with open arms.
I hope today we can remember that our identity is not in the hurt others have caused but in the healing that Jesus has provided. Amen!